Anal sex isn't something you just do. And there are a lot of people who won't consider it. If you or your partner do enjoy having the area around your bottom touched, talk to each other about what you would both like to try. Vanessa & Paul will show you how to go about it because you have to build it up very carefully. Your anus is very sensitive. The skin is thin and there are a lot of nerve endings there. Therefore, when having anal sex, always use a good lubricant and be generous with it.
Built up Anal sex:
OK, so how do you get ready? While cuddling you can carefully start focusing on the bottom. Spread the buttocks gently apart and pull your partner up a little. Have the other person kneel down or lie down on a pillow. Start with a finger and a little lubricant or spit to gently feel the area around the opening.
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